A popular saying of the day is “It is what it is,” or, like some people say, things are the way they are. Most people accept this concept and go along with it. So did I for most of my life. When I awakened and things started changing around me, such as when there were no more negative people around me, and people were a lot more friendly than before, I began making money without making any effort.
Once you understand the way the world works and finally wake up, you start coming to understand that nothing has changed. It was you all along that was negative, not the world around you. Things are not the way they are, they are the way you are. If you are defensive, the world will want to argue with you. Once you become open to people’s opinions, because it is their opinions not yours, and they trust you enough to share it with you, you will be amazed how less argumentative people will become around you.
When you start to listen and try to understand what people are trying to say, instead of waiting to state your opinion on the matter being shared, you will be amazed how much friendlier people will be towards you, more open to hear you out when you have something valuable to share. Most people live in fear. They cannot help it. Humans are animals that were born with only two instincts: “fight” and “flight.” It is in our nature to either fight or run away from anything we do not want. But since we are humans and not animals, we need to act like humans and not animals–with love, compassion, and humanity.
The world is lot simpler than people think. For example, I have never met a bad person. I have met a person who is out of his mind with rage or under some influence, but once he calmed down, he was like everyone else, searching for love and happiness. Try to be better to people around you, and see for yourself how your world starts to change.
23 thoughts on “Things Are Not The Way They Are – They Are The Way You Are”
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PERFECT BLOG! And sooo true- way to go Alex! KUDOS!!
Hats off…. seriously it depends upon how we percept the things around usd
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What a wonderful message Alex. I’ve been hearing that a lot lately “it is what it is” most generally describing my mum’s situation, implying that I just have to accept how things are. But in other cases you spoke about, yes I believe you’re right.
I am still waiting for you to disagree to anything ;)
I will when I read something I disagree with! But so far that hasn’t happened.
you just like me too much, and you do not want to hurt my feeling :)
Haha You think so? maybe … :)
I probably saw my videos and felt bad for me :)
Actually I haven’t seen any of them yet.
not even the one on 13 Steps to awakening page
Now I have.
I’m not photogenic I look a lot better in real life :)!
You look alright to me! :)
Mr. Alex Moses your blog made me a better man
thank for amazing posts
God Bless You
Amazing! Love this! I agree, things are the way they we are. Powerful & wise words!
Post about that things are NOT the way they are, they are the way you are, I think you need to read the post again
Sorry it was a typo mistake. But I did read it all. I understood it perfectly.
thank you for reading it and your comments, did not mean sound aggressive
It was a pleasure to read. Sorry again for the typo mistake. Please read my new blog I posted today https://enedinablog.wordpress.com/2016/06/29/the-silenced-girl-is-alive/ It’s my birthday today so I made it a bit special.
Very interesting and helpful THANKS!
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