- Should we have an ego?
Many books about the ego portray it as some kind of enemy that must be destroyed. Do not make this mistake, otherwise it will cost you dearly! We absolutely need the ego in order to function in this world and to balance all aspects of our existence. If you only practice detachment and altruism, your life will become severely unbalanced and you will end up paying a heavy price in the later stages of your life. The healthy ego, which is free of the virus, is your best friend and your custom-designed vehicle that will take you toward your goal in the shortest amount of time. You owe it to yourself to take a complete inventory of all your egoism desires, as well as the unique gifts and talents and thank the ego every day for bringing these amazing qualities into your life. If you want to live in a house, drive a brand new sports car and travel the world, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having these desires fulfilled, as long as you don’t create suffering for yourself and for others. By taking the inventory of your desires and treating the ego as your friend, you are setting in motion incredibly powerful subconscious processes that will bring wisdom and show you how to obtain these things in your life with the least amount of energy and in the shortest amount of time.
- What are the benefits of taking your ego out of the way to achieve anything?
If there is only one thing you take away from this course, let it be this: in order to achieve what you want in life, your ego must get out of the way. It means that if you do things for the sake of appeasing your ego, such as increasing your self-worth, feeling superior to others, proving something to others, etc., you will inevitably fail and invite pain and suffering into your life. Most of the things we do in life are for the sake of the physical body, which is perfectly normal. Living in a nice house, eating tasty food, enjoying sex, traveling – anything you can think of is done for the sensations that we receive through our five sense organs and have nothing to do with the ego. On the other hand, things like career advancement, recognition, power, etc. are done for the sake of inflating the ego and perpetuating its sickness. There is another category of desires, which pamper the soul, but those are not part of the ego structure. These desires get automatically fulfilled once the virus is eradicated.
Look at the inventory of your personal desires to see which ones are aimed at pampering the physical body and which ones are just there to inflate the ego and make your feel good about yourself. Those that are there for the sake of the physical body are healthy and must be fulfilled. The rest should either be converted to physical desires or discarded. Remember that if you continue to chase after things for the sake of appeasing the ego, you will only end up with pain and suffering.
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8 thoughts on “Understanding The Ego – Part III”
Zig Ziglar used to say, “The way to get what you want is to sincerely help others get what they want.”
Could not agree more!!!
I’m agree with you. Ego can crush us, but we also need it. I have experience a situation when I really want to fulfilled my dream because I just want to have actknowledgement from other people and when I found that it’s wrong, I became a person who only think about other people and forget what I want and what I need, and finally it destroy me. I don’t know what I really want, what I have to do, what my dream, and that’s really suck. But, it’s all in the past. Right now, I’m trying to think about myself but still aware with my ego, so it’s not going in a wrong way.
Read previous post about Ego, its has answers you looking for
Ok. And thank you for it. Maybe I’ll find a way to make myself happier soon. (:
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